• SallyAnn Gray

7 hidden ways you're blocking yourself from love

I see you. Scrolling through match.com, wondering where all the good ones have gone...

I see you've been looking for love for a while now. Nothing would make you happier than finding and attracting the partner of your dreams.

But, no matter how you try, you just can't find that person!

You're getting frustrated. Almost hopeless.

It's easy to point to external factors.

If you live in a rural area, you tell yourself there just aren't any "decent" potential matches around.

If you live in a city, you think nobody's taking the search for partnership seriously enough....

But here's what I see: Your real blocks to love -- the real reasons you haven't found your match yet -- are actually INTERNAL.

Your subconscious beliefs (ones you don't even know you have!) are creating your behaviors, which are subsequently creating your experiences (which then reinforce your existing beliefs)! (Ouch.)

Here are 7 hidden ways you might be blocking yourself from love, and, unfortunately, setting yourself up for disappointment, almost before you start.

  1. Deep down, you believe you're all alone in the world -- so you never ask for help and go about life doing everything on your own and acting as if (and almost believing) you're completely self-sufficient.

  2. Deep down, you believe that others are hurtful and untrustworthy and that you must protect yourself at all costs -- so you keep your guard up at all times, never letting anyone get close enough to know the real you.

  3. Deep down, you're actually afraid of love -- no matter how much you consciously think you want it -- so you shy away from it or sabotage it when it's offered, or come up with a hundred reasons why the person in question just doesn't measure up to your standards.

  4. Deep down, you believe you're unlovable -- this can be true even when, at the conscious level, you tell yourself that you are lovable -- so you sabotage any budding relationship by behaving badly, thereby proving just how "undeserving" you are.

  5. Deep down, you believe that by having love you'll have to give up something else that's important to you, such as your career -- so you work longer and longer hours and tell yourself you just don't have time for a relationship.

  6. Deep down, you believe you're a burden on others -- so you work harder and harder to prove you don't need anybody at all.

  7. Deep down, you believe others are out to get you -- so, the minute you start to let someone get close to you and then start to feel vulnerable, you lash out to hurt or disappoint them first.

Now, what do you see?

Without judgment, take a deep breath and ask yourself if any of these subconscious beliefs and patterns could be true for you.

Or does some other deep belief or pattern come up?

If you uncover something, that's a good thing! Because, in the words of St. Paul, "everything is shown up by being exposed to the light, and whatever is exposed to the light itself becomes light."

In other words, once you've seen the way a subconscious belief is blocking you, you can get after the work of changing it!

The Calling in "The One" coaching program is designed to do just that. It changed my life completely. Those beliefs I listed? Numbers 1, 3, 4, and 5 used to run my show. Oh, and also 6! This had led me to a painful divorce and a subsequent focus on unavailable men (a clever way not to get hurt, right? Ha.)

Now, after doing the Calling in "The One" coaching program myself, I have come into true, authentic union with the man of my dreams!

Let me tell you, it feels AMAZING!

I became a certified Calling in "The One" coach because I want to help others break through to that same bliss.

As your coach, my superpower is to help you transform the false beliefs that have been creating your life -- your lack of fulfillment -- up till now.

To help you return to the essence and TRUTH of who you are.

Empowering you to align with your deepest truth and create the life and love of your dreams.

How does that sound?


P.S. Right now, I have four openings for private Calling in "The One" coaching. I would love to work with you!

With my intuitive healing magic and unconditional loving support, I will guide you to:

  • Uncover your most authentic self and become centered in the truth of who you are

  • Shift your subconscious beliefs and shed any energetic obstacles that have been holding you back from fulfillment in life and love

  • Get clear on the future you desire and realize your power to co-create it

  • Become magnetic to your dream life – and to the love of your life

Like my client Lisa, 53, who went from being fresh off the trauma of divorce and uncertain whether she could trust herself not to give away her power to a controlling man again -- to handling online dating like a boss and becoming so magnetic to men that she even had to shut down her profile because she couldn’t take on any more prospects!

Now is YOUR time to powerfully break through your blocks and step into your most authentic, blissful, love-filled life.

Are you ready? Email me at ellenbakercoaching@gmail.com right now. I can't wait to hear from you!


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